Monday, July 24, 2006

Out of Town

We're taking our first trip to New York City on Wednesday to be in Audacia Ray's super-cool porno so you probably won't be able to get in touch with me until after August 3rd.

Hoping to get in some flashing pics in Central Park . . . wish us luck!

Sunday, July 23, 2006

Whenever I worry . . .

Sometimes I worry that our content isn't up to snuff. Whenever I get that feeling I just join a sponsor's program and download some of their promo content. 20% of the time I am inspired by the quality and hotness of their content and can see where we have room to grow, and the rest of the time? I can't believe people JOIN those sites if that is the kind of content membership gets them.

This is especially true of gay sites featuring solo guys; the photos are SO staged, the quality is SO poor . . . god almighty. It honestly boggles my mind. It's not that the stuff we shoot is perfect or anywhere near it -- there's always room to grow -- just that the stuff I see from sponsors is such bland antierotic assembly-line crap.

I've also noticed that the gay sites with really nice sexy exclusive content seem not to dish any of it out for affiliates to use. What is a horny webmistress to do? I guess I must admit it: yes, I often do sign up for programs just to see hot guys.

Monday, July 17, 2006

Trial Memberships

We don't offer trial memberships to our sites and we never will which is probably why I find myself disagreeing with a lot of remarks I see in this thread (which I'll comment on more later).

One guy blew TBP's cancellation guidelines totally out of proportion by complaining, "the consumer is being reminded to cancel subscriptions before trial periods have ended (there should be something in every sponsor's TOS forbidding that from appearing on any affiliate site IMO)". While I agree that scammy affiliates who use cancellation of trial membership as their sole marketing ploy are dirty, like attracts like. When you try to appeal to cheapskates, you attract cheapskates. When all you care about is making sales to anyone and everyone and don't care about the integrity of your product, you attract people who have no integrity and don't respect your product. When you offer affiliates $25 on a $3 sale and expect the surfer to be suckered into your little ploy to screw him for more, expect to get screwed yourself.

Complaining about people using the attractive features of trials (ability to cancel having only paid a few bucks for a few days) is a bald-faced admission of guilt that the only reason trials are offered in the first place is to get people to agree to paying a small amount so you can slam them with a bigger charge within days. Don't offer trial memberships if you don't expect them to be used the way they are set up (or at least don't complain when someone advocates for the consumer by reminding them how trials work). It's almost comical hearing people squawk, "they're taking advantage of us by not stupidly allowing us to take advantage of them!"

I think trial memberships are offered mostly by people who devalue their own content; the content is only cheap bait, not something that has a set value to them because the people setting the prices and creating the marketing schemes are not the people in the content. Part of why I refuse to offer trial memberships is that I value our content too much, probably because it's so personal to us BECAUSE WE ARE IN IT. No one is going to get access to four years worth of content, be able to chat with me, and SPY ON ME INSIDE MY HOUSE for $3.95. No fucking way. There's a minimum entrance fee before I even open the door to a stranger watching me while I'm sleeping. You either take a chance and pay the measly $20 or go to some sleazy corporate site who gets you to join for $1 and then hides the cancel page from you.

I also think it's totally disrespectful to members paying full price when sites offer cancellation discounts, or that sleazy pop-up when you try to leave their sites confessing that your content isn't really worth $25 . . . since you didn't fall for that one, join now for $15!! I think that's outrageous and a complete slap in the face to loyal members. I couldn't care less if those guys don't even know it's being done; my problem is with the shady principal of rewarding people with discounts who devalue your product while making the people who DO value your product PAY MORE. That's just wrong. Again, it's a situation of people so eager to make a sale the only message that they convey is that their product isn't worth a bucket of bullshit (and neither are their customers).

I realize there are a lot of people who employ these methods who actually run decent sites (some that even feature themselves) and if these methods work for them, more power to them. I just think the tactics themselves send a message that the price of porn is completely arbitrary (not based on real value) and designed solely to TAKE people's money rather than sell them something that has a real set value. It's like someone trying to sell you a stolen watch on the streetcorner -- he didn't pay anything for it in the first place, he just wants to put some money -- ANY money -- into his pocket. He doesn't care about the watch; the only value it has to him is what will get him a quick sale after which he will run away, never to be seen again.

Another observation I have about trials, cancellation discounts, and discounts to folks who are trying to leave a site is based on dealing with customers one-on-one in private shows and phone sex. Anyone who has done any camming or phone knows that when you raise your prices, you may get a slight drop in the number of customers but the quality of the customers go up. Sell camshows for $1 a minute (or worse, give them away for free), and you will get the bossiest, cheapest, quickest, biggest assholes around. Raise your prices to around the $4 a minute mark or higher and you will attract customers looking for quality and willing to pay for it. The shows don't get shorter, they get longer. You have fewer jerks to deal with, and can enjoy doing shows with people who value your time and come to you expecting to pay for it, not haggle with you or ask for refunds or do chargebacks.

When you set your prices you're also setting PERCEPTIONS about what your content is worth. Setting prices too low or begging people to join at discounted rates just communicates to surfers that you're selling worthless shit and that they're entitled to have it for cheap. It smacks of desperation, begging a surfer to join for next-to-nothing, and is an especially bad idea when you're running a personality site. I do not want surfers to feel I am *desperate* to make a sale like I'm some crackwhore on the street selling blowjobs for ten bucks to get her next fix. There is no one more vulnerable to assholes and predators than a desperate sex worker; I have no desire to attract that kind of fan base. It may mean fewer sales, but it also means fewer assholes.

I think the better way to appeal to people looking for a bargain is to create mini-sites; much less content for a much lower price. Tucker and I have been talking about a few different ways to do mini-sites, the main one being limited-time-only / special-edition mini-sites. This way the appeal is that they're getting exclusive content, or content presented in an exclusive fashion, so there's a sense of urgency encouraging them to drop just a few bucks to see and download something that won't be around next season. We got this idea from seasonal candy after seeing certain candybars being marketed in different alluring combos -- it's a totally ridiculous concept, but a good one for selling a lot of stuff at a low price point and possibly attracting new customers who will develop brand loyalty when they might otherwise never notice or try the same old candybar.

Anyway, I totally disagree with the guy saying, "Once a potential customer is shown these tricks they aren't likely to forget them and will have been turned into a lower quality customer forever, whether they keep doing trial joins at the review site (and their bookmarkers must be mostly this type of customer) or go on to other sites elsewhere." First of all, it's not a "trick" when a customer cancels a trial membership -- the "trick" is performed by the paysites offering the trials and COUNTING on customers not to use them as such. Second, I think it's *hilarious* that anyone in this industry would whine about an ethical site like The Best Porn (with absolutely no free content) training people to be "lower quality customers forever" when the majority of people in this biz base their marketing on giving away shitloads of free content which (some might say) trains people not to be customers AT ALL. I'm not complaining about it, just saying that it's a much bigger problem than consumers being reminded that they can exercise the option to cancel trial memberships. Third, it's absolute bullshit to assume that people who bookmark review sites are mostly "lower quality customers". They are just people who are tired of lower quality sites and want to know what they're getting before being suckered by someone's flashy-ass tour into a membership that doesn't provide what they want.

Saturday, July 15, 2006

Significant Contributions

Just a quick post to remark on the growth we've experienced over the past month, most of it due to our affiliates, both old and new, who responded to the handful of new content we posted and used it to promote us or got inspired to write reviews or just put up some links. It is the biggest jump in member count we've ever had over the course of just a few weeks and makes me really excited AND really appreciative.

I also wanted to make a note of it to let people know what a big deal affiliate promotion is for indie programs like ours -- you can make a really significant difference in our lives. We're not talking about the difference between buying some corporate dude a new yacht or him having to make do with his forty footer, we're talking about the difference between us not being able to afford to fix our junker car versus having a reliable car to visit family (or enough money to hire the first contractor or employee to help us make better content or run our program better).

This difference is one of the things that attracts surfers (and members) to sites like ours -- the feeling that they are supporting real people with their dollars and have the ability to make a meaningful contribution versus putting money into the pockets of a large corporation and the model not seeing any of it beyond the payment she got for the shoot. Indie sites can go a long way in establishing trust with surfers to remind them that porn has real people in it who work hard to provide entertaining high-quality products. These are the kinds of yesteryear values touted in best-selling inspirational books: support small businesses and mom-and-pop type operations! Yes, I like to use this as a marketing angle, but not in a jaded way: supporting small independent businesses is something I and many others think of as a moral obligation and something that in general just makes us feel darned good about ourselves. It makes us happier to part with our money when we can actually see and KNOW the people who pocket it.

The past month has been one of the most thrilling since I first opened my site in 2002. It's not that we suddenly got rich or anything even close to that; it's that I feel like we're on the verge of new growth. It's not that the past month has been anything to write to AVN about with stats and bragging about dollars, it's that I was reminded of how much potential our sites have and how cool it is to have the support of other people in the industry, some of them with lots of experience and resources, and others in the same boat we're in, still struggling to pay off credit cards and not at the point of trying to decide between a Bentley or a Rolls (not that I think many people in this industry are actually faced with such difficult decisions ;-).

We have seen constant steady SLOW growth over the past four years which is always encouraging, but seeing a nice little SPIKE over the past month? That felt fucking awesome, and I just want to thank our affiliates for that. I'm really looking forward to the months and years ahead!

Saturday, July 08, 2006

Networks Vs. Standalone Sites

If you ignore the spam that started this thread, there's actually an interesting discussion here about which sells better: networks giving members access to a bunch of sites -OR- individual stand-alone sites.

Sunday, July 02, 2006

Frequency of Sponsor Newsletters

Here's a useful discussion: in what frequency should sponsor's newsletters be sent? - GFY Webmaster Board.

I know some people view *any* newsletter as spam, but I do like getting emails from sponsors and usually don't consider it spammy, and this is saying a lot since I don't actually spend much time on promoting other people's programs so they don't really have much practical application in my workday. On the other hand, some sponsor mailings are better than others, and many of them are completely useless and sent far too often.

One of the things I *hate* is a particular sponsor who sends out far-too-frequent mailings with the header "Important News". Their last six mailings bear that subject line and only two of them could even be remotely considered important. Why not have the subject line reflect the supposedly important news? "New Site Blahblah" or "Closing site Blahblah" or "New Affiliate Signup Method"? The fact that they've been sending these every three or four days makes it particularly annoying.

Anyway, my vote is for once a month. Of course, I'd probably prefer once a week if the mainstay of my business was promoting other sites. But yeah, don't send anything at all if you have nothing to say and DEFINITELY don't send anything at all if your "news"letter is just a bunch of fucking ads for other programs, software, and other assorted bullshit.

I'm definitely interested in what other people's preferences are with newsletters especially in terms of frequency but also in terms of presentation; I've been sending all newsletters out in plain text, but I'm curious how many people prefer the fancy graphic-laden newsletters. Which do affiliates read more and which do affiliates skip over?